Annoying People Be Gone

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Yesterday was like any other day. I was minding my own business in Facebook, replying to some messages and some posts, commenting on a few pictures, and chatting with friends via their walls...

Until someone starts making a big deal on the way I write my wallposts and the expressive language I used.

Yes, it's annoying, and to top things out, I hate it when people comes straight to your face and says that you're wrong just because your way is not 'in-compliance to the rest of the majority'. This person, whom I will call Mr.D, annoys me with his shallow know-hows, and even undermined my work by (without no clear positive intention) blatantly criticizing it. I hate these kind of people. These people are the maggots of our society. They fell out of place from the rest of us and in search of attention, they poked other people with their annoyances. Fuck, it does not matter how I wrote my wallposts, or whatever expressive catchphrases I use, it's about me and it has nothing to do with anyone else, right?

Speaking of which, If you find yourself in the constant presence of irksome individuals, you have to take extra measures and learn how to deal with annoying people. Annoying people come in different personalities, and not all of them are even annoying in one particular way. That's why, if you want to know how to deal with annoying people, you have to identify what exactly about them galls you.

Some people may be annoying because of their voices and how they speak. Some may just have an outlook on life that gets you down and irritates you like crazy. Others could just have an entire array of annoying habits--talking about their weekends relentlessly, burping in your face--that it takes everything you have to keep from throttling them!

You don't need to learn a whole lot of techniques to be able to face annoying people. What it's going to take is a great amount of patience and an ability to tune them out. Here's what you can do to keep annoying people at bay--and keep yourself from losing your cool.

Learn how to block them. You can let yourself get worked up over the numerous annoyances or you can just distract yourself and do your thing. Ignoring the source of the annoyance is one important step to learning how to deal with annoying people. The less attention you give them, the less chance there is of them coming up to you again.

If the annoying person swooping around you talks too much and takes up a lot of your time, you don't have to cut him off abruptly. Try responding with some perfunctory nods and "uh-huhs" while letting your mind wander; and when there's a lull in the conversation, you can interject and say you need to be doing something else. Just don't show any more interest than that, because that will only encourage them to regale you with more stories.

No matter what kind of annoying person you're dealing with, it will really help to have a good long talk with him or her to set things straight. Keeping annoying people at arm's length can increase your chances of being unaffected by their prattle and their behavior. If you're serious about knowing how to deal with annoying people, the best thing for you to remember is to not give them an opportunity to get into your personal space; and if you really have to interact with them regularly, then just do your best to block the irritating behavior and focus on what needs to be done instead.

Well, dear Mr.D, you are annoying and I don't like you. Your comments are pure shit, you see your surroundings in a short sighted perspective, so stop bugging me and get lost. 

p.s: by the way, If you're trying to say that your photographic works are better, then, so sorry to burst the bubbles dear, I've seen awesome works of arts out there, and yours are simply LAME!

Nuff Said ~

To all those annoying creepy people out there....



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